Creating a harmonious and happy marriage.

Due to hectic work schedules and the pressure of multiple commitments, marriage quality may suffer as a consequence. Making time for each other should be a priority especially if you have a family to look after. We all have a 'to do' list and it is important that list prioritises your most important considerations for your happiness and wellbeing and that of your partner. So, what are the most important factors when it comes to relationship maintenance?

Communication:

It is vital you communicate regularly with your partner especially if something is causing a problem in your relationship. The worst thing to do is keep silent as your partner will not understand what is wrong. As soon as you communicate with your partner, you are already taking important steps to strengthen your relationship in the best way possible.

Honesty:

Cultivate honesty in your relationship. Don't tell your partner what they want to hear. Be truthful and emcourage your partner to do the same. Openness and honesty will ensure that you and your partner can feel comfortable being yourselves in each other's company.

Share responsibility:

Make sure you and your partner share responsibilities. If you feel like you are the one carrying the majority of the workload, sit down with your partner and discuss it with each other. Don't the let the situation deteriorate by ignoring the problem. Come to an agreement with your partner as soon as possible and explain why you feel you need extra help and support.

Make time for each other:

We all have very busy lives and it is therefore extremely important to make time for your relationship. It is so easy to be snowed under with work commitments and deadlines and it can take over our lives completely if we are not careful. Arrange a romantic night together in which the two of you can relax and enjoy each other's company.

Copyright Christina McDonald 2009